daily quotes

don't always be running to somewhere or frm someting
sometimes just run...

small small jianhong

wishes?

hahaz... have been thinking about some of the things that we want in this life... ok.. i hope to realli study some philosophical tings for my degree... go to nepal again... and "u"...

ok... wishes.. on first tot is someting that we feel that it is so far away... and how to achieve... ok... then my nxt qn... then how u goin to get it if u tink it is far away?? if u tink that tings are nt achievable.. .definitely it is nt! ok.... then how? we have to say to ourself we can do it??? ya.. we do.. bt tis does nt mean that we don't need to work for it.. so a new presentation of wishes... using the goal as your journey...

so let's take the nxt stress tt is comin EXAMSS!! so we want to get results.. so let's say be realistic lah... B+ for all modules... so u will tell urself ok.. i will get tt results... then tink of how u feel and what it is like to have those resultss... ok... imagine as vividly ah.. then frm the results wich is the end... take a step back on how u goin to achieve it.. then slowly slowly link back...

perhaps tis is a way.. i dunno how true... bt i use it once in a while... most of the time it workss... surprisingly the results can appear more than wat u expected... can try try everybody.. bt if ur exams fail dun find mee...

i got tis inspirations from the movie "the secret". it is a documentary.. so must prepare ur tidbitsss..

daily quotes

It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to not harm them.
–His Holiness the Dalai Lama

relationshipsss...

hmm.. facing with relationships problem tis few dayss.. hmm.. here it goes..

A like B.. and B has no feelings.. A has foolishly rejected B in the past.. and now seeking B again when B no longer has feelings... so a bit stupid.. some say a bit JIAN.. ok... so now A a bit sian sian lahhh.. however.. life's move on... everyting shall be alright... TIME WILL HEAL..

ok.. enough with complaining.. let's look at some reflections of small small jianhong when he was sad... OHYA.. craps like this will be said in this blog... can agree or disagree.. bt if it helps u.. continue.. if it doesnt... rmbr everybody is diff..

1) Why do I feel sad when the relationship didn't work out?
2) what is the purpose of relationship?

ok first qn..
a bit lame to ask this... but if we remain sad and do nothing abt it.. doesnt help right?! i rmbr this scene in this movie "patch adam", so it goes something like that.. 2 siao ting tong in a hospital talking to each other.. and this siao patient told patch... come.. hold out ur fingers in front of my face.. so patch guai guai follow a siao ting tong instructions!! then.. the siao ting tong said... no don't focus on the fingers... focus on my faceee... then he said.. we usually focus too much with the problems which are the fingers... however, we should look beyond and to the solution which is his face.. so don't look down on siao ting tong!!.. then... the solution??? hahaz... can't tink much.. bt just say time will heal.. then work on it.. i believe i nt tt powerful to gace a problem rationally immediately.. however.. if u tt powerful.. u shld do it.. n nt do someting so low class.. ok.. so tis is one ting i learnt..

then.. why relationship? first ting tt comes to me.. she can make me happy lor... then comes a phrase in my mind.. a person's happiness is due to the giving/suffering of another person... hmm.. ok... to clarify.. i saying in a low level... giving shldn't be suffering... bcux in the mind of great ppl like mother theresa... giving is nt a suffering.. ok.. then she suffer just to make me happy?!! a bit wrong rite... so i suggest.. maybe a relationship shld be are you ready to suffer for another person?!!! nt the usual tinkin of can she make me happy??!! hahaz.. very subjective.. very razy.. bt tt shld be it i tot..

i am damn noob in blog

hahaz... just set up tis blog.. wah biang.. realised how noob i wasss... bt it's the content tt matters.. so enjoy the times after tiss...

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jianhong's lame jokes..
jianhong's small realisation(s)..
jianhong's life...